Valentine’s Day always made me nervous as a kid. What if none of my classmates gave me cards? Would the little boy who I had a “crush” on bring me one? A certain year that comes to mind must have been when I was in 3rd or 4th grade. Teachers at that time in our small Michigan town didn’t allow an entire afternoon of fun and games on that particular holiday. We waited in agony until almost the end of the school day to pass out our cards. With relief, I saw a reasonable number of valentines being deposited into my decorated shoe box and hoped that those I had given out were well-received.
I was a “walker,” living just a block from my school, and took a few extra minutes in the cloak room to look over my “haul” before putting on my coat and boots to head home. A little boy who had signed his valentine to me with just the initials “T.F.” sidled up close and said that he wanted to give me something else. He held out his hand, as did I. Into it he placed a golden ring with a clear stone that sparkled like glass. I’d been given rings by boys, before, remembering several that had purple or red stones and appeared to have come from the local “dime store.”
This one seemed different, somehow, and I remember feeling kind of troubled by it. Sticking the ring into my coat pocket, I became rather speechless and doubt that I even said “thanks.” Arriving home, I put the valentine box on our dining room table so Mom could see my cards. It took me until that evening to get up my nerve and show her the ring. “This looks real,” Mom said. I didn’t even know what she meant. After asking who it was from, she went to our black telephone in the hallway and took out the phone directory, skimming her finger until she arrived at the “F’s.”
Mom returned to where I stood by the table in just a few minutes with a mysterious look on her face. She gently explained that I wouldn’t be able to keep the ring, since it was a diamond my classmate had taken out of his mother’s jewelry box! I felt very silly, but I suppose it was T.F. who really should have been feeling embarrassed. His mother suggested that I just bring it back to school the next day and evidently wasn’t overly concerned. If memory serves me right, she was no longer married to the boy’s father and may not have been all that attached to this particular reminder of the past. I looked the ring over one last time, and my mom placed it in an envelope for me to deliver back to “my admirer” the next day.
This wasn’t to be the last ring that I would give back to a boy or man over the years, but I HAVE managed to hang on to a few! ~Becky
What a sweet story. : )
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Thanks! Glad that you liked it!
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Such a wonderful story. its something you could never forget 💗 I loved Valentine’s as a child. I haven’t thought about those decorated shoeboxes in years! Happy Valentine’s Day 💗💗
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Same to you! Glad that you enjoyed my memory:)
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Love this story!
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I’m so happy that you like it!
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What a touching story! I’m glad that now the teachers, at least in the elementary grades, insist the children bring a valentine for each child in the class. That eliminates the worry from the day. Now if they could just get rid of the candy, since when I was teaching, that candy intake made for a very crazy classroom the following day!
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All so true, and I’m pleased to read that you enjoyed my childhood recollection:)
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This is such a lovely story, Becky, thank you for sharing it. Real diamonds at such a young age! Bless his heart for such a gesture.
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I know…it really was sweet.
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What a sweet story. Fortunately for me at my junior school in England and senior school in Australia, Valentine’s went uncelebrated during the school day.
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Probably just as well. As a teacher, I remember it being a very stressful day with WAY too much sugar involved!
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What a great story! I’m sure he thought he was giving you something very special!
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Thank you, Ann! I imagine he did, and I probably should have been flattered:) I was always such a worrier, though (and still am).
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Believe me, I understand!
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I know that you do:)
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Wow, I love this story! Thanks for sharing it.
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I appreciate that, Cristy, and thanks for reading it!
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This is a beautiful Valentine’s Day story, Becky!
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Much appreciated, Lavinia. Thanks so much for reading about this memory!
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So… Your young hopeful paramour was a thief!😊 I would have felt bad having to give it back too.
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Right!
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That’s a lovely story:)). I don’t recall too much fuss being made at school over Valentine’s Day, thank goodness.
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I’m so pleased that you liked it, Sarah! I probably made the day into a much bigger thing in my mind, being the worrier that I was:)
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Yes… we worriers tend to do that! It’s one of the benefits of growing older – I don’t worry half as much as I used to.
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I’ve also improved, in that respect.
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I enjoyed this story, particularly the unexpected twists along the way.
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Thanks, Liz; I’m pleased that you liked it!
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What a lovely story. 🙂
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Thanks for stopping by; I’m happy that you enjoyed this memory!
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What a great story…you took me back to those moments in grade school when we had to create valentine boxes and cards were exchanged…..such a guy thing, but I was totally focused on any candy that came ones way instead of the cards…LOL.
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I’m pleased that you liked my story, Kirt! How could I forget about the candy?
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Oh my goodness! What a great story! Happy Valentine’s Day:)
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Thanks so very much! Same to you.
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Oh Becky, that’s such a sweet story! I remember getting a surprise valentine from a boy named Jimmy in 4th grade. I had no idea that he “liked” me. It was one of the most touching gestures that I’ve ever received.
Thanks for this. All the best to you,
Debbie
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Thanks so much for reading and commenting. Those make for pleasant memories, don’t they?!
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Great story!
I do miss the dime store–and valentines–
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Thank you so much! Yes, those certainly are special memories from the past…
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